How to spot a man who won't commit (and why women should run a mile!)

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I love you so much and want to keep you happy but at the same time i cant get married also. Im only guessing here as i am more or less in a similar situation. I fell in love, he didn't. I want someone that can't wait to marry me.

We are both very independent people and have always been sure to allow enough space to appreciate each other. We get along very well. I take care of his two kids and my kid every day, I stay home. Hopefully he changes his mind.

How to spot a man who won't commit (and why women should run a mile!)

It might have come as a shock to Jade and Elisabetta, but sadly, as a relationship expert, I could have seen it coming a mile off. Wilson and Clooney are classic commitment-phobes. Parted company: Elisabetta Canalis couldn't change George Clooney's ways Even their exit strategies are the typical behaviour of a commitment-shy man. All too often, an obsession with being in charge in the relationship goes hand in hand with a reluctance to commit. Men such as Wilson and Clooney, Simon Cowell and Hugh Grant maintain control over every aspect of their life. Their work, time with their friends and interests are all carefully factored in. One of the clearest signs of a non-committer is a procession of lovely exes. Share She described him as delectable, attentive and flirtatious. Little wonder she fell for him. I worried he enjoyed female company a bit too much, so I asked if he had been through an awful lot of women. He satisfied her like no other man before. Nicole made the fatal mistake of believing his passion was romantic love. IN OUR DREAMS At Madame Tussaud's in Las Vegas, you can put on a wedding dress and have a picture taken next to George Clooney Nicole found out the hard way that the world revolves around a commitment-shy man: they do not consider others. And unfortunately, because of their charm, these men get away with so much. Women are often guilty of fuelling this behaviour: we get a morsel of their marvellous attention, hope for more and drop our plans when they choose to ring. At a psychological level, this is known as partial reinforcement — a principle that confounds the person on the receiving end. We filter out negative behaviour — such as the length of time between phone calls — focusing on the attentive behaviour. Any woman can fall for it in the early days, only wising up once emotionally involved. Not ready to commit: Owen Wilson, left, and Hugh Grant are famous bachelors Take fashion buyer Chloe, 41, who spent six years hoping for commitment from James, 42. Her panic mounted as her biological clock started ticking: they had a final showdown on her 40th birthday. Not only did she lose James, but she had lost the chance of having children. He loves female company and his best friends often include lifelong women friends. In bed, he only has you to focus on, but a commitment-phobe wants a busy life. Chloe sought my help to come to terms with her extreme anger with James and also with herself for turning a blind eye to him not wanting to buy a home together, not wanting involvement with her family and putting his buddies first. Even when a man tells us he has no interest in commitment, many women take no notice or see it as a challenge. One client, Sally, 36, has high hopes for Dominic, 38, her hesitant boyfriend of four years. My advice is to listen to what he says. But just what is it that causes men to shy away from a permanent soul-mate? There are many reasons why they can develop commitment issues. If you grow up with a father who is emotionally contained within the family home, yet engaged outside of it with his career and hobbies, it sets the standard for a non-committer. Another explanation can be found in their relationship history. Yes, they enjoy dating, love the chase and adore sex. If marriage is on your agenda, get out. Names have been changed. Dr Pam Spurr is the author of How To Be a Happy Human JR Books, £9.

You are social and need security. Use this time to get to know yourself and what you're truly looking for in ways you've never discovered before. If a man or woman is unable to commit at this point, it is time to let them go. And nothing ever custodes followed through. Maybe you blurted out something about the future only to find your heart sinking as your Beloved pulls away and actually leaves you. It is also part of Guillian Barre syndrome GBS. It's what we do oh so well - believing there's something someone else has that we don't.